When a movie scene gets hot and steamy, it can look like a beautiful thing. You rarely see the mess or laughs that make a physical relationship so special. It looks easy when actors have personal trainers, beautiful lighting, and directors pose them carefully.
Some people feel bad about themselves when they compare themselves to movie stars, even though many actors look like the rest of us when they’re not made up. We only see actors at their best, with their hair done and in great clothes, surrounded by beautiful Miami escorts, in perfectly staged angles and elegant lighting.
If seeing those slim, beautiful bodies makes you feel sad instead of excited, you’re not the only one. When comparing themselves to Hollywood hunks, men and women feel unhappy with their bodies. Not only do movie heroes look better than we do, but their homes are also more amazing.
Perfectly Clean Houses
When things get hot in the bedroom in a movie, the actors don’t trip over dirty clothes on the floor. When two people in a movie take a bubble bath together, there is no dirt around the drain.
Most of us have to balance our sex lives with other parts of our lives, like cleaning, cooking, taking care of kids, and working. Movie sex is a free-from-worries kind of sex, which is out of reach for many people. It’s not uncommon for someone to use a movie as an example of how they wish their sex life worked.
Hollywood’s portrayal of sex in movies is usually about big, bold acts of love and attraction. Characters in movies have no limitations.
But, in real life most partners have things like money, jobs, and families that may limit how much they can do sexually. In movies, there are none of these rules, which can make a normal pair feel bad about their own sexuality.
That Locked In Stare
All that lovers have to do in a movie to start making out is look at each other from across a crowded room. This Hollywood-style view of sex couldn’t be more wrong, and it makes many people feel bad about themselves and wonder what’s wrong with them.
In movies, it’s easy and quick, and two people always want the same thing at the same time. It causes some people much pain when they find a partner and use that as a comparison because their romance does not fit that description.
Infidelity Works Out Well
Adultery is one of the things that kills closeness the most. Too many people think they have to end their marriage when they find out their partner is having an affair because they saw that in a movie. Affair found out, new start, and everything goes smoothly is how a movie will portray infidelity.
In real life, people get over affairs, try hard to mend their relationships, make difficult decisions and deal with life’s ups and downs pretty well, unless they’re comparing themselves to an unattainable ideal, like we often see on the big screen.
Movie sex puts pressure on people to perform, thus ruining even their sex life as by comparison, it will always look better in the movies.